Marriage is always solemn to us: most people in their life could have only once. Marriage can make us memorize it for our entire life. Getting married is not only about you and me, but also our families, and our responsibilities.
Two undergraduates once get married, gradually they will magnify their drawbacks of each other, besides all kinds of trivia will drive them forget their sweet love, only leaving the quarrel, cold war, indifference, even regret behind. You might be confused why are you choosing this person in front of you, or even worse. This comes in most of their marriage. So if two undergraduates want to live together, they need to be more toughening.
College students want to be independent in mental life. However, they are too self-centered. Perhaps they are accepting new things more easily, yet they lack of faith. They have a strong desire of competition, but without adaptability. Once they get married, I think most of the college students are unable to undertake their responsibility as marriage gives it to them, because their economic status is not independent, as we all noticed: no bread, no love. Without certain economic base, the so-called love and marriage is just a castle in the air, can be easily destroyed, not to mention defend any storms. What’s more, the college students’ work is usually unstable, their dwelling place always changing. When they are in school, they can smooth and easy. If days didn't work out, the lovers apart, one of them is unable to bear loneliness, tragedy will comes inevitably. Above all, the most important things is the college students' views about love and marriage is still far from mature.
College student can get married when reaching the legal age, says the law, but I think this behavior should not the be promoted, university is a place of reading, where accumulate knowledge. If a man not sure about what’s his purpose in college, so this man’s life is supposed to be failure. 作者: 苹果爱桔子 时间: 15-4-5 09:39
我好久没有来论坛了,,how is everything going?作者: 苹果爱桔子 时间: 15-4-5 10:20
哎哎哎,我都快修改完了,应该按错了一个键,一篇文章就被delete掉了,这种焦心的痛苦真的是······