关于大学生是否可以结婚
婚姻是一件非常庄重的事情，很多人这辈子只有一次，婚姻会让人记一辈子，婚姻不光是你我，还有我们双方的家庭，我们的父母和我们需要背负的责任。
两个人，一旦踏入婚姻，就会慢慢放大对方的缺点，生活的琐碎，会让你见见忘掉恋爱的甜蜜，争吵、冷战、漠视、甚至后悔，你会怀疑自己为什么当初会选择你眼前的这个人，这些事情都发生在大多数的婚姻当中，两个人想要走下去，需要经得住考验。
而当今的大学生追求自身思想独立，但过于以自我为中心。易于接受新事物，但缺乏信仰，内心空虚。竞争意识较强，但耐挫能力较弱。如果在这个时候结婚，我想大多数的学生都不能承担起婚姻所带给他们的责任，因为他们经济上还没有独立，有爱情，还要有面包。没有一定的经济基础，所谓婚姻和爱情都是空中楼阁，都是海市蜃楼，非常不牢靠，经不起任何风风雨雨的考验。另外，大学生一般工作还没有稳定，居住地域还处于动态变化之中。在学校你们可以卿卿我我，如果毕业时能顺利分配在一起，那倒是天随人愿。万一老天不照应，棒打鸳鸯，使有情人分居两地，一方耐不住寂寞另寻新欢，悲剧就会不可避免地开始上演。
最关键的是大学生的恋爱婚姻观还远未成熟。
尽管法律上允许大学生男女双方到达法定年龄后可以结婚，但是，我认为这种行为是不该被提倡的，大学就是用来读书的地方，是积累知识的地方，倘若分不清自己上学的目的，那么这个人的人生也注定失败。（ 研究生老师说要用高档的词语和句子 要有深度，跪求帮助!）
@苹果爱桔子 Whether college students can get married?
Marriage is always solemn to us: most people in their life could have only once. Marriage can make us memorize it for our entire life. Getting married is not only about you and me, but also our families, and our responsibilities.
Two undergraduates once get married, gradually they will magnify their drawbacks of each other, besides all kinds of trivia will drive them forget their sweet love, only leaving the quarrel, cold war, indifference, even regret behind. You might be confused why are you choosing this person in front of you, or even worse. This comes in most of their marriage. So if two undergraduates want to live together, they need to be more toughening.
College students want to be independent in mental life. However, they are too self-centered. Perhaps they are accepting new things more easily, yet they lack of faith. They have a strong desire of competition, but without adaptability. Once they get married, I think most of the college students are unable to undertake their responsibility as marriage gives it to them, because their economic status is not independent, as we all noticed: no bread, no love. Without certain economic base, the so-called love and marriage is just a castle in the air, can be easily destroyed, not to mention defend any storms. What’s more, the college students’ work is usually unstable, their dwelling place always changing. When they are in school, they can smooth and easy. If days didn't work out, the lovers apart, one of them is unable to bear loneliness, tragedy will comes inevitably. Above all, the most important things is the college students' views about love and marriage is still far from mature.
College student can get married when reaching the legal age, says the law, but I think this behavior should not the be promoted, university is a place of reading, where accumulate knowledge. If a man not sure about what’s his purpose in college, so this man’s life is supposed to be failure.
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